SWAP-DROP

The sadness one feels when a hookup with a new partner, is not going to happen, specifically in a wife swapping fantasy. For whatever reason, the hookup never happens, schedules, sickness, cold feet, shark week etc. When those reasons mix with higher than normal expectations, misperceptions of levels of experience, fear of safety etc. it causes a reluctance to act on the desire to hook up. It didn’t happen and now you are sad and wish it had all played out differently. The moment is gone and someone is relieved, someone is sad and the other doesn’t care. Swap Drop is caused by a loss of perpetual state of desire and anticipation. It is replaced by an empty feeling that for some they can be can be replaced by another few quick swipes to the right. For others, it's a sign that it's time to buckle down and get back to the real world with very little time for fun and frivolity.