shaboogle

noun or verb, is an alternative to "fuck" ... but with a slight, important difference of effect. To some ears, "fuck" (like "bang") can sound like an aggressive act, and/or violent conquest, whereas "shab" (a softer sound) sounds more like an enjoyable fun activity. "Shaboogling" is still often the preferred term among women who are very keen on "shaboogling", very much enjoy shaboogling men (and/or women) and getting shaboogled themselves. But don't so much want to get "fucked" (though if talking about another woman, especially a rival, it may well be a different story!)