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The word that has come to replace she/her, used by clever, college-educated men around a woman to make sexist jokes about it without its knowledge. The situation arose in response to way too many crazy feminist elementary, middle and high school teachers who allowed young women to make constant, overt sexist jokes about men in the classroom, but who would practically pull their own hair out while threatening repercussions if a young man said anything sexist about women. Some women have caught on and have, in turn, tried to apply the word to men, but it's really obvious when it does.