he is using you

1. He is not interested in getting to know you and does not appear to want to waste any time talking to you. 2. He does not make significant effort to please you. 3. He does not show genuine concern for your feelings, goals, ideas, family, friends, etc, etc, etc. 4. He is not affectionate, sensitive, or deep. 5. He is not texting, emailing, or calling you. 6. He seems to expect you to meet his needs first, but does not show any real interest in meeting yours. 7. He curses at you, tries to control you, and take you down a notch when you do not meet his needs, first. 8. He doesn't ever seem to conistently compliment you on anything besides your beauty, body or something that pertains to your sexiness. You rarely (if ever) hear him complimenting you on your personality, your intelligence, your talents, your ideas, your accomplishments, the creative things you make. 9. He talks about sex waaaaay too much to be respectful of your wish to remain pure. 10. He has proven to be none of the things he says he is.