Spencer

Spencer is a great person that cares deeply for others. He has your back and he’s not afraid to tell you when you’re being an idiot. He wants people to be their best and simply “do better”. He is loyal to the people he cares for and his love language is quality time. He has a soft side but also has a heart that’s been thrown through the ringer. He has walls up to protect himself from getting hurt again and he doesn’t share what he’s going through because he doesn’t want to be a burden or “complain”. He has unrealistically high standards set for himself and he beats himself up when they’re not reached. Honestly, his high standards may very well be the death of him. He doesn’t like himself much because he finds his worth in his job status and accomplishments. He doesn’t always notice how big of an impact he has on others and how much he means to them. It takes time and commitment but when you get to know Spencer, you can see his true self that he is trying to protect and that is what you will fall in love with. Because once you get a glimpse of his heart, you will love him forever because you will know how worth it he really is. But, if you tell him that he’ll shrug it off and say “That’s gay”. Yet he genuinely appreciates the validation of it. Spencer is a very down-to-earth person and worth the wait.