Shadow Daddy

A popular trope for male love interests within the romance-fantasy (romantasy) book genre. It is a common phrase found on BookTok. A Shadow Daddy often has the following characteristics: 1) tall, dark, and handsome, 2) a tortured and traumatic past, 3) a “tough guy” exterior that terrifies most people (with the exception of the female interest usually), and 4) the ability to wield some type of shadow/darkness/night magical power. A “Shadow Daddy” often begins a story as a misunderstood character that initially comes off as cocky or intense, and the female love interest usually dislikes him at first. But eventually the Shadow Daddy’s true personality ends up shining through — honorable, selfless, kind, protective, a willingness to be seen as a villain for the greater good, and LOYAL to a fault — and through this he eventually wins over the female love interest. Bonus points if he ends up worshipping the ground the female love interest walks on. He’s almost always dominant in the bedroom, but never so dominant that he disregards the female main character’s agency. Extra bonus points if he uses his shadow powers in the bedroom as bondage, or he loses control over his shadow powers when he climaxes. Some popular examples of characters that embody the “Shadow Daddy” trope: Rhysand from A Court of Thorns and Roses Azriel from A Court of Thorns and Roses Dorian Havilliard from Throne of Glass Xaden Riorson from Fourth Wing Nyktos from Flesh and Fire