Heartbreak

The most horrible thing in the world. A feeling of total rejection and self-questioning. You begin to question your worth, your thoughts, your whole identity... All because of one person. It feels like the end of the world and you don't know where to go from here, especially when the person was your bestfriend too. Heartbreak doesn't have to be a break-up, it can be when your crush rejects you. It doesn't have to be when you are dumped- it can be when you do the dumping. You can still be utterly head-over-heels in love with someone and feel that they've pushed you to a point where you can't forgive them. If your gut is telling you to leave, then you need to leave. If your gut is contradicting your heart, go with your gut. It runs off of fact. The heart runs off of feelings and sometimes listening to those feelings and believing those thoughts can be the most self-deprecating thing you could possibly do. And, remember that you can never be healed in the place that broke you. Nor can you rely on another to fix you- that is your job, and yours alone. No matter how you feel, how sad you are, you'll get through it. You'll heal, you'll re-establish self-love and one day, you'll find someone new, if that's what you're looking for. But never, ever let love define you. Never let heartbreak be the end. Never let your feelings be your enemy. But most of all, find peace within yourself and trust yourself over anything. At the end of the day, self-love is the most important kind of love.