transgender
A term referring to when one's gender and sex are not always or ever equivalent. Often used as a referrant to the person themself. This is a broad term that includes transexual (pre/non or post-op), non-gender, bi (tri & multi) gender, androgynes, etc. The state of being transgendered may or may not have any bearing on sexual preferences.
Jen was born a female, but as a person is a man. Bob was born a male, but as a person is a woman. Karen was born a female, but as a person has no gender. John was born a male, but as a person switches gender. and so on..
By Rumpus