Narcissist
Someone that says love people not places or things when they really mean love them, not people (though she wasn't going to tell anyone that was what she really meant, what kind of sister/wife/coworker/cousin would she be letting people see right through her).
The narcissist wanted people to love her, not each other, but pretended to be everyobe's friend on everyone's side to play them all against each other and keep herself loved and in people's good graces.
By The Original Agahnim