What's on your mug?

like a gold digger, but for people who date someone just to use them for emotional labor; (someone who goes out with you fo yo emotional labor)

Now, I ain't sayin' he's a soul digger

By linguisticautistic.com

Persons who look for a partner who will do all their emotional labor for them instead of taking the time to heal themselves.

"Watch out for them, they preach conscious behavior but they're a total soul digger..."

By Fire_Hoff

Someone who is fond of the spiritual side of life; of exploring the concept of the soul in different contexts

“you can’t impress her only with looks only, she’s a soul digger”

By adhele37

A man who dates women with the sole purpose of exploiting their time, energy, and labor while he sucks the joy and happiness from their lives.

"That guy's a soul digger. He'll expect you to work full time, but you'll be doing all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, shopping, and childcare while he plays video games or watches TV."