Gatekeeping
When someone takes it upon themselves to decide who does or does not have access or rights to a community or identity.
"I love punk bands like Green Day!" "Ugh, they're not even punk. They totally sold out." "Oh man, I love Harry Potter. I am such a geek!" "Hardly. Talk to me when you're into theoretical physics." "Erika Moen is my favorite queer cartoonist." "She's not queer, she married a man!" "Quit your gatekeeping. No one died and made you Queen of the Gays!"
By sarahalyse