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A word derived from the words stud and femme used in the lesbian community to describe a woman who is boyish but in a very feminine way. Stemmes usually dress more feminine than their stud [counterparts] but are more butch than their femme [counterparts]. Stemme, however, may be descriptive of how much [emotionality] and sensitivity a lesbian has versus how they choose to dress. Stemme falls under the concept of androgyny as does stud, futch (a femme whose a bit butch), butch, soft butch, etc... As far as femininity goes: Femme>Stemme>Futch>Soft Butch> Stud
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