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A manipulative tactic—often used in banlighting and PADARVO—where the perpetrator accuses the target of being the one who “started it,” “continued it,” or “finished it,” regardless of the actual timeline. By claiming “You started it,” the abuser frames any initial reaction or boundary-setting as the original aggression. “You continued it” is used when the target refuses to stop defending themselves, casting persistence as provocation. “You finished it” weaponizes the target’s final response—often a justified outburst—as the definitive act that “proved” their toxicity. The perpetrator cycles through these accusations as needed, shifting the blame onto the target for every phase of the conflict. YSI‑YCI‑YFI effectively erases the perpetrator’s own role by projecting it entirely onto the victim, making them appear to be the sole source of conflict and therefore deserving of banning or exclusion.
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