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A black woman who puts herself first. Divestors walk away from toxic behaviors [in the black] community.

Said toxicity can include: nonreciprocal [struggle love] for the sake of "black love", being activist warriors for a group of men who don't protect them, baby momma culture, etc. Divestors avoid toxic [black people] ([particularly] the men, who are black women's number [one] victimizers. "Unicorns" are so rare that vetting is not worth it).

A divestor is not male-identified or conventionally "woke" like many black women can be. She is not bound to any unwritten rules of "Blackistan". Divestors care deeply about black women as a demographic (especially in the context of black femicide + DV), but may avoid some [individual] black women due to their proximity to toxic black male worship.

Many divestors date interracially and leave the hood, but it's a myth that divestment's ethos is to date a white man. A divestor can be: happily single, childfree, w/ a Latino or Asian man, a co-parenting mom, middle class, minimalist, and even a lesbian.

Divestors have a growth, wellness, and self-preservation mindset. Healing/healed from traumas related to the black community. Young divestors tend to focus on their educational goals. Older divestors tend to focus more on their physical health and newfound freedom.

A divestor loves her blackness, but not the BS that comes with it. She is not a tribalist and knows "black power" is about black men.

She can be from anywhere in the diaspora.

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