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A man is "rapey" if things he says or does hint that he thinks he has a right to sex with a woman, or that women *should* have sex with him out of some kind of social obligation. Rapey implies that the man is not an actual rapist, but only has some points of view that are unsettling. A woman might feel unsafe around a man she thinks is "rapey". Rapey men might claim that women they crush on are being unfair by not entering into a sexual relationship with them, they might demand a "good" reason their girlfriend doesn't want sex, or generally whine about how they can't get any sex and blame women in general.
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