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Someone who tries to be controlling most of the time causing irritation, but inwardly desires to submit or to be dominated potentially causing silent misunderstanding. Their paradoxical emotions of submission and simultaneous resistance creating an enticing irritation. Someone who can annoy you but you have a desire to keep around, causing an emotionally bittersweet mood.
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