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Noun, psychological condition. 1. Someone constantly finding or causing problems in an otherwise good relationship, in an effort to gain attention or sympathy, or because their standards are too high. 2. Someone dating people who are bad/wrong for them to create conflict. Out of stupidity or self-loathing.
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