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A woman who is tired of touchy-feely friendships and being the vulnerable one in romance, a new breed of steely female, beating guys at their own game. She doesn't feel need to conform to situations that call for being fake-nice or openly emotional. She is realistic and tells is like it is while still being civil, appropriate and fairly considerate to others who might be more 'soft.'
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