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(noun) A woman who plays extremely hard to get in a slippery, evasive, and dishonest way — like trying to grab a handful of wet sludge that keeps sliding through your fingers. Her whole "try-hard to get" act is pure sludge behaviour: greasy with mixed signals, flaky with plans, and soaked in insincere behaviour that makes everything feel slimy and impossible to actually pin down.
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