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A controversial slang term describing a dynamic in which a gay man is believed to subtly channel or “siphon” his female friend’s feminine energy, beauty, or social magnetism for personal gain — such as access to wealthy men, status, gifts, or strategic networking — sometimes without her fully recognizing the exchange.
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