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A person (usually a man) who gives you just enough emotional attention to keep you hoping—while simultaneously dragging you down with their unprocessed trauma, mood swings, and chronic under-functioning. They breadcrumb you with affection, texts, and vague promises, then bog you down with emotional weight, guilt, and confusion.
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