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Abbreviated variation of “femme for femme” or “fem for fem.” This LGBTQIA+ term is most commonly used to reference femme lesbians and sapphics who are attracted to and/or have a preference for other femmes. Traditionally, femmes have been expected to be attracted to butches. However, some femmes are attracted to other femmes, and this preference is known as “femme for femme.” F4f is an abbreviated variation.
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