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A person feeling so unlovable/unattractive he or she doesn’t dare to actually engage in mutual connection and flirting, but rather engages with a fantasy version of the crush and thus displays weird and intense behaviour. Often more attuned to the persons own deep longing for intimacy than the other person and might therefore show creepy behaviour towards almost anyone. Needs to love themselves better and stop relating to fantasies rather than reality.
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