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It's when, after a lot o struggles with a Person, after all the reassurance, the understanding, the love, the promises you've been giving they still choose to hurt you, telling you they are ready when they are not despite your promise to wait until it's sure. 🙂 So even if you know you love them, you have to give up on them because they keep on hurting you, and sometimes it's ok to choose yourself, so you can keep on fighting for survival, no matter how bad it hurts.
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