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A forging station creating ornate swords. Your emotions are the fire - they create the weapons you will use on your journey. The cool thing about that is that emotions don’t have to be right or wrong or “make sense”. You get to play with them and feel them. When someone really offends or hurts you, you have the power to not hold anything against them by turning the attention towards yourself. You are significant so your emotions are interesting. There’s so much to explore there. You get to hold space for yourself. See what kinds of fire burn in you. The stronger the fire, the more powerful. Handle cautiously. Even when a friend makes your feelings about condemning your offender, realize the time and space is being taken away from you. It’s all about you. Accommodate for what is going on inside you. Give it all the attention it needs, and then some. No need to turn your attention to the other person. It’s all about you.
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