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“the only spot in the spot” — the only visibly identifiable member of crowd that is not a member of the majority of that crowd including but not limited to: The only Black person at a private school The only White person at a Black Family Reunion The only flamboyantly gay or lesbian person in a room full of Christian Nationalist The only biracial person in a room full of uni-racial people The only differently abled person in a room full of the biological normative A single woman at a swinger’s club cruising for a threesome — so rare that they are called unicorns and have their own appellation. Depending on the strength of character of the person in this situation. this can be a very fun, very comfortable, or very uncomfortable experience. And, if you don’t understand this phrase; then you have never been “the only spot in the spot”. Ironically in a society and culture that prides itself on rugged individuality; there are still more extreme ways of being “individual”. Cultural food for thought.
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