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A nb gay woman (lesbian) who uses "he/him" pronouns.

Appears by a misinterpretation of "gender =/= pronouns" This is born for nb folks, since some are not ok w "they/them".

So: "A non binary person can use binary pronouns, which do not mean they are binary" Example: a nb person who use "she/her"

Pronouns are meant to indicate what gender the subject is/what's the one which the person identifies the most/is minimally related to. (That's why neopronouns were born). A person should choose their pronouns in based of how they identify. "Lesbianism" has always include nb woman/nb persons whose has a minimum of correlation with womanhood.

"He/him" are male-related pronouns. Whoever decides to use them is, in fact, related to manhood or male gender spectrum and/or expression.

We come to the conclusion that "hesbians" are: a contradiction, ignorance about how "pronouns" works, what "lesbianism" is, and a reason why more transphobics r erasing trans rights.

Some defend that there has "always been he/him lesbians". As the "male Victorian lesbians" Those woman were not "he/him lesbians". They were faking being men, so they could been with their lovers without being murdered. Since, lesbianism were a reason to be executed.

So, again, we come to the same conclusion: a bad use of languaje, tolerance and logic. Nowadays, there are fools who think "everything is valid", even if it is a contradiction/hurtful for someone/a community/movement etc.

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