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Similar to playing the black card, playing the woman card, playing the disabled card, et cetera. When someone exploits positive discrimination to get their way, and points to a personal trait of theres as a fault which somehow justifies their actions or inability to do something they'd ordinarily be expected to do. Also used to guilt trip people into taking back something they've said on the grounds of them being insensitive. Usually just enforces negative stereotypes and is extremely detrimental to the cases of most gay people simply wanting to be treated like normal human beings.
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