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A manipulative action, move or ploy used by one partner in a fake love relationship as leverage to gain the upper hand in winning or ending an argument or disagreement without resolving anything. This manipulation is followed up with lots of sex to distract you until the next time you board this repeat roller coaster ride only adding more uncertainty and finally you ask yourself why. The toxic mix of mind fuckery and what you believe is lots of good sex only leaves you feeling more confused, violated and oversexed.
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