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A Brenda is a character/person who butts into a perfect, ideal, soulmate relationship. Often in books/movies/TV shows the author will add in a female side character who’s motivations are unclear until they steal away the male protagonist and make you scream in mortal pain and horror, often resulting in you throwing the remote or book across the room. The most famous Brenda’s of all are the origin, Brenda from the maze runners series, Lavender Brown from Harry Potter and Rachel Elizabeth Dare from Percy Jackson and the olympians. You usually can’t tell who will win in these book and in the ultimate worst times the Brenda will win which causes PTSD or writhing on the ground in agony, or uncontrollable sobbing. Sometimes you will need to call someone and scream at them and blame them for what happened. Some way to find a Brenda in their natural habitat are, when they are a back stabbing meany and when they find interest in male protagonists and start making moves. If you find a Brenda and feel uncontrollable hatred towards them just remember you aren’t the only one that’s going through it.
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