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A person, often male, who is involuntarily celibate, or in other words, is not able to find a sexual partner. Typically this is due to poor stature or appearance, social difficulties, or a combination of both. Should be more broadly defined to include those who cannot find meaningful romantic relationships. Censored by public platforms and forums completely as of 2020, cuz freedom of speech. On and off their communities have been quarantined as often as a COVID-19 patient. Often seen as "dAnGeRoUs" and misogynistic due to the crimes of a couple full blown Aspie nutjobs who had connections with the group. The whole community has kind of disappeared since 2020. Although the term has existed for decades, incels came to light as a source of public outrage in 2019. While inceldom can be relieved through prostitution in areas where it is legal, it is very costly and does not rival at all with the emotional intimacy of a committed relationship. Many incels also consider suicide; while this is technically a solution, it should be thought through carefully, because it cannot be reversed. An appropriate solution to severe cases of inceldom is proper coping mechanisms. This could include a job, hobbies such as video games or music, or nihilism. The eventual goal is to accept ones fate in the genetic lottery and make living without the validation of a romantic partner as bearable as possible.
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