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A member of an online community that is excessively bitter toward the fact that women are not attracted to them, in turn making them insufferable to be around. The term "Incel" is often misused to shame men who simply have no luck with women. Once a man realises that women are not attracted to him, there are three main philosophical paths to take: *Denial: Unable to accept the idea that women only consider personality in absence of genetically attractive characteristics, they become whiteknightsor nice guys. *Anger: They've realised that women are never going to be attracted to them, and instead of learning to accept it they grow bitter and angry to the point that they have been responsible for a few mass shootings in the past (It's worth noting that for every man who does this, thousands more kill themselves). These are Incels. *Acceptance: They've realised that women are never going to be attracted to them. They discover r/MGTOW, figure out why women aren't attracted to them and cease all pursuit of women, in favour of hobbies and male comradery. The MGTOW philosophy is related to Absurdism. In recent years, the term Incel has lost all meaning via its use at an increasing frequency by twitter thots and feminists to describe any man who isn't an alpha male and will not simp for them.
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