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SAM stands for Smart-Assed Masochist, although it is not a necessary requirement to be a masochist to be a SAM, they are the brats of the submissive types in BDSM. Their role is often consisted of trying to provoke their dominant. Some SAMs are driven by the punishment, others by the pain. (Punishment in BDSM =/= Pain). A “bratty” submissive has a reputation for talking back, being disrespectful or mildly disobedient. On the surface, this is a negative quality in a submissive; however, a certain amount of “brattiness” is enjoyed by some Dominants, and may in fact be a large component of a power exchange relationship. In other terms: submissive who exhibits bad behavior (such as sarcasm, talking back, or disobedience), either because her Dom enjoys it or to get attention.
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