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A strategy to pick up chicks that incels popularized circa 2012. It involves tossing a mild insult at a girl disguised as a compliment in a attempt to bring down their confidence enough to like you either as a date or as a friend. Unfortunately most girls have now heard about this and if they realize they are experiencing a neg, it can massively backfire Edit: often initiated by the boys with acne at uchicago
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