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noun 1. A term used to describe persons who hold back in their own lives and then proceed to project their holderbacker behavior onto others to put them in a similar state of holderbackness. 2. An activity that one engages in due to their own deep rooted insecurities and unwillingness to face reality on a consistent basis. 3. Eager or willing to put other people down to make them selves feel better mostly through passive aggressivness.
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