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A gay male, usually 40+, who is considered attractive in both a dad type way and a bear type way. The man is typically very hairy, larger in stature but not muscular, bald or balding and comes off as fatherly and commanding. He usually has a beard of some sort, possibly tattoos and is out and proud. He will most always seek a younger gay male as his partner and variations of the relationship can form based on the interests or desires of the men involved.
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