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A Peter Pan is a perpetual loser, typically a guy in his 30s that still lives with his mother with no intention of ever moving out or getting a job because his mother has supported him all of his life. A Peter Pan is an individual that has possibly managed to get a girlfriend beyond all of this, to which she thinks she will be able to change him, but without a reason to change he will most likely stay a boy forever. Any attempts the girlfriend attempts to leave the toxic relationship are met with threats that the Peter Pan will commit suicide and other narcissistic behavior and "gaslighting", such as implying that she made him the way that he is. The girlfriend is essentially fulfilling the role of second mom. Though a Peter Pan may have a job, it is most likely low responsibility and minimum wage that he does the bare minimum to keep.
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