NiFi

NiFi is the abbreviation for the German term 'Nicht-Ficker'. It literally translates to 'non fucker' and stands for a person (usually a guy) who doesn't have sex. NiFis tend to be highly frustrated and attribute their lack of sex to circumstances not under their influence (preferably related to society or unfair female mating preferences but sometimes also their genetics). NiFis do overlap with other social groups like Incels. Tho NiFis do not exclude them from sexual experience voluntarily but by a lack of success in getting laid. Moreover, in their strong attribution of a lack success in dating and sex to external circumstances they do overlap with the 'red pill' movement. Both groups have in common that by attributing their lack of success to aspects not under their influence cognitive dissonance is being avoided. Moreover, the external attribution serves as a lever to avoid taking action and change something about their life facilitating a passive approach similar to the clinical phenomenon of learned helplessness.